Doctors barely make anything from an office visit. They DEFINITELY can't afford to hold your hand to help you through this process or they would be broke and out of business.
Until the insurances/Medicare wants to pay a good wage for this, then docs rightfully won't do it.
Oh, there are definitely problems with how healthcare is funded.
Insurance companies will pay outrageous sums for the stroke, MI, amputation, etc. downstream, while balking at the much more modest compensation that would have funded prevention.
And yet, that doesn't change the fact that prevention is far more cost effective both in terms of health care dollars, human misery, years of life lost, etc.
Maybe I am super naive and the practice model that I envision is really inherently not feasible. But I don't think that is true, because there are doctors doing it. It may mean breaking from maladaptive structures, trying unconventional approaches, lobbying for compensation for effective, efficient care models. But I am prepared to risk going bankrupt trying to find a way to actually help people, yes with a little hand holding where needed, than just shrug and blame the patients for their inability to extract more value out of a rushed 5-10 minute visit.
How is it possible to expect anyone to buy into a plan of care, under those circumstances? If we don't give ourselves time to do anything more than write for more Lantus at bedtime, then it isn't their fault for not sparing us the need to give them that, at least. All medicine becomes triage, at that pace.
I don't blame docs for feeling crushed by the current assembly line system. I just have to believe that there are alternatives to settling for that. Slash overhead, explore novel payment models, etc. I think that it is counterproductive to offload blame onto those who are already most harmed by a broken health care system. (Those being both physicians and patients.)