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I have always wanted to be a surgeon. I loved my surgery rotation but the hours really wore on my family. I have a wife and a toddler. They are FAR more important than any job to me. I also have a ton of hobbies that really help with my sanity. My spouse 100% supports me no matter what specialty I pick, but if I pick a surgical field I feel it will be detrimental to both myself and my family. I don't want my daughter to finally get some quality time with me when she's 10.
I am now down to the point where I have to pick a specialty. I want to pick a surgical field but I feel guilty for doing so, selfish, maybe even disappointed... I have never been this conflicted in my life. I am thinking about picking a field with procedures with a better lifestyle - maybe anesthesia or EM.
Has anybody been through something similar?
I am now down to the point where I have to pick a specialty. I want to pick a surgical field but I feel guilty for doing so, selfish, maybe even disappointed... I have never been this conflicted in my life. I am thinking about picking a field with procedures with a better lifestyle - maybe anesthesia or EM.
Has anybody been through something similar?