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Hi everyone,
I am very fortunate to be accepted by a DO school as an international student but as time approaches to matriculation date, I am becoming more worried and stressed for leaving my mom alone with all the responsibilities while traveling abroad for a career I worked so hard for.
If I were going to the states, my mom would be the only person taking care of my ill grandparents and my 7 year old brother while going through a nasty divorce with my abusive dad. And because I'm so far away with intense school work, I won't be much help. And since I will also need to do my residency here, it will be a total of 7 years spending in the states before I can really help my mom. These thought keeps me worried for my mom's health and since my mom (and part of me) don't want family stuff pull me back, I'm wondering if there is any way I can control the situation or compartmentalize my thoughts so I can dedicate to studying during school years?
I tried to talk to psychologists about this but they seemed not really understand how much stress and work US medical students go through, so I'd thought to put it here as you guys are the true experts. Any advice is MUCH appreciated!
I am very fortunate to be accepted by a DO school as an international student but as time approaches to matriculation date, I am becoming more worried and stressed for leaving my mom alone with all the responsibilities while traveling abroad for a career I worked so hard for.
If I were going to the states, my mom would be the only person taking care of my ill grandparents and my 7 year old brother while going through a nasty divorce with my abusive dad. And because I'm so far away with intense school work, I won't be much help. And since I will also need to do my residency here, it will be a total of 7 years spending in the states before I can really help my mom. These thought keeps me worried for my mom's health and since my mom (and part of me) don't want family stuff pull me back, I'm wondering if there is any way I can control the situation or compartmentalize my thoughts so I can dedicate to studying during school years?
I tried to talk to psychologists about this but they seemed not really understand how much stress and work US medical students go through, so I'd thought to put it here as you guys are the true experts. Any advice is MUCH appreciated!