Also I got a text from one of my good HS friends that kinda stopped talking to me once we got to college and I got really excited.
And then I read:
"Hey Cdo I got a kitten a little bit ago- she lost most of her tail during birth and just recently the stub has been bothering her. She messes with it all day and it's starting to get raw and bleed frequently. It's actively bleeding now"
My go to answer: "umm yeah I don't know. Sorry. I would take her to an actual vet... hope she gets better soon!"
Also, as soon as I responded that, she said "hmph". I asked her about her life since HS, and she opened the message and didn't respond. People are the worst.