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I was reading a lot of the questions in this forum about kids and stuff and have been shadowing a lot lately ( neurologist, cardiologist, etc) and i always ask if they ever considered surgery in their field and most of the laugh it off and are like no way! They have no lives it's awful etc. I also know that a lot of people try to advise women against a surgical speciality because it's very time consuming and hard to have kids and stuff.
I was thinking and had a hypothetical question. A lot of male surgeons I know have stay at home wives and have a few kids( most I've ever seen is 3). If a female surgeon had a husband that was willingly to be a stay at home dad do you think " she could have it all"? Like have her surgical career and have a few kids without it interfering to much with her career?
Also a lot of stuff I've read from female surgery residents makes it seem like it's ok to have 1 kid but having 2 or more in just absolutely ridiculous. Why is that when males have more than 1 and no one thinks it's stupid?
I was thinking and had a hypothetical question. A lot of male surgeons I know have stay at home wives and have a few kids( most I've ever seen is 3). If a female surgeon had a husband that was willingly to be a stay at home dad do you think " she could have it all"? Like have her surgical career and have a few kids without it interfering to much with her career?
Also a lot of stuff I've read from female surgery residents makes it seem like it's ok to have 1 kid but having 2 or more in just absolutely ridiculous. Why is that when males have more than 1 and no one thinks it's stupid?